Tuesday 2 January 2018

CONTROL YOUR ANGER: 20

MODERATION IN ANGER


In some situations, anger is required. For example, a father may need to scold his children if they have done something very wrong, or a teacher may have to express anger at his students, or a Sheikh (spiritual teacher) at his disciples, to correct their behaviour. However, it is important to express only as much anger as is necessary to correct their behaviour, and not become excessively angry. If a person goes overboard with his anger, it means that his behaviour is now being driven by his emotions, and not by a desire to help his student or child or disciple to improve their behaviour. Becoming excessively angry in such situations then becomes a sin, and often tends to bring outcomes opposite to what was originally intended.

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