Saturday 20 January 2018

CONTROL YOUR ANGER: 31

MISUSE OF بغض فی الّٰلہ (ANGER FOR ALLAH)

While it is correct that our anger should only be for Allah Ta’alah, some people misunderstand the meaning of this completely. For example, when some people start following religion, they start believing that they are superior and virtuous, while everyone else is inferior and is a sinner. They start thinking that their parents, their siblings, their friends are all sinners, and will go to Hell (Jahannum), while they are the only ones who will go to paradise (Jannah). They start believing that Allah Ta’alah has created them to bring everyone else to the right path. They start being angry with their family and friends, start insulting and ridiculing them, start using harsh words with them, ad start violating their rights. The Satan makes them believe that whatever they are doing is for the sake of Allah, while in reality it is their Takabbur (arrogance, believing that we are superior to others and others are inferior to us) and egotism leading them to such behaviour.


That is why people who have just started following the path of Allah sometimes cause more harm than good, by being angry with other people excessively, criticizing other harshly, and getting into fights over religion. Such behaviour often puts other people off religion, rather than attract them towards it.

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